Long time readers may recall that last year my youngest son’s science project was to determine which of our three dogs was the smartest. An interesting side effect of that was the discovery of which one was the dumbest. But he’s a good, kind-hearted boy, so he described her instead as “the third smartest dog.”
So now, on occasion, I’ll call her #3. Thing is, I like #3. She’s sweet and when we got her she was terrified of the world. Seriously. She only stopped shaking in dark room by herself. I often found her in my closet. She would leap from the dogs’ recliner if I even came close to the shredder. So I would pet her with keys in my hand. She’s still nervous about that, but I don’t have to hold her anymore.
#3 is a black Lab. If you know labs, you know they have a voracious hunger and will consume vast quantities of anything when given a chance. This one is partial to charcoal and Crayola’s. It makes for a colorful back yard. I’ve trained #1-2 to eat only when given permission. But could #3 learn to wait too?
She can and she has. It just took longer than the Border Collie did. I estimate about 1 week of training for the lab per day of training for the collie. To be fair, the lab is about 7 years old and the collie was a pup, but, well, there’s a reason she’s #3.
My point in all of this is that my family was dubious about my chances for success. After all, everyone knows that you can’t teach an old dog new tricks. Except that I did.
Think about that.
Have you passed on your dream again because now you’re too old? If I can teach a lab in late middle age to wait for her breakfast, you can do it too. Not wait for your breakfast, but live your dream. The thing about dreams is that most people don’t follow them and they’ll tell you all sorts of reasons why you shouldn’t either, one of them that you’re already set on your life path. Don’t listen to that. People, in general, are afraid, and what you are hearing are the expressions of their fear, the things that are holding them back. But you aren’t them.
So what if you’re only third smartest. Doesn’t mean you can’t succeed.